Love the Believer, Hate the Belief
- Zoë Ariel Dunning
- Mar 3, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: May 10
28 Micro-Aggressions & Judgment in 3 Minutes

This poem is reimagined from the stupid phrase:
"Love the sinner, hate the sin."
People who say that usually are hating integral parts of others that are them, like being gay. Christians use that phrase to support their cognitive dissonance that people aren't really queer...or they are because something is wrong with them. Instead of the more logical conclusion: that people are born queer and that it's natural. Like, can we move on from all this homo/transphobic bullshit already and just accept each other?
If you're offended by this poem, that's the point. Imagine hearing this shit all the time and not being treated equally.
Love the Believer, Hate the Belief
I just don’t agree with or believe in
The cisgender, heterosexual lifestyle
I don’t personally identify that way
I used to think I was cis and straight
Why would you keep the gender
You were born as?
That was just a phase I grew out of
Why did you stay in your chrysalis
And shun your wings?
Something must’ve happened to you
As a pupa
You’re just hetero
Because you haven’t loved right
Or had good, toe-curling
Spine-chilling gay sex
Don’t be upsetero
No offense, but I could NEVER
Why would you choose to be that way
When it’s natural to be queer?
Nature incarnate is forever in flux
I pity straight people
Must be so bland and boring
The color sucked dry from your lives
I have friends who aren’t gay though
Even one who isn’t trans!
She’s so pretty for a cis girl
You wouldn’t be able to tell otherwise
Can I ask you deeply
Personal questions
About your sexuality and body?
I know I don’t know you
But you should be shouldering
The weight of my scrutiny
And dishing out free emotional labor
So I can dissect and inspect you
Express your deviancy all you want
Behind closed doors
Just don’t do it in front of me
Or the children!
Don’t shove your sexuality in my face
Or grab a fistful of my shirt
And thrust it down my throat
I can’t even look at
A man and woman kissing
Disgusting!
You’re required to respect
That I don’t accept your existence
Or else YOU are intolerant
This is a two way street
And you better get out
Of the fucking road
Before I Stonewall you
Teachers shouldn’t tell students
That straight people exist
Age inappropriate talk
Should be banned
Along with books
Pushing the heterosexual agenda
Outrageous propaganda!
Sports should be
For trans people only
The cis can’t play as their own gender
Maybe on a different team
Just for them
Why should we make room
For a minority?
We’re already standing shoulder to shoulder
Any closer, you’d have to dive
Into the deep end
And of course, if the cisgenders win
They’ll need to be investigated
Because that’s unfair
And unacceptable
Unless they have a losing streak
So many straight people EVERYWHERE
Almost like they’re following a trend
They won’t exist for long
Once this dies out
They’ll kill themselves off for us
Just watch—I promise
Heterosexuality is a mental illness
Staying the same gender is a delusion
You should really go through therapy
To convert you to the gay cause
Churches should be preaching passionately:
Marriage should only be between
A man and a man
Or a woman and a woman
You go against my religion
You’ll burn for eternity
For your wicked perversion
But I’ll be your friend
To slowly break you down
Sow seeds of doubt
And drag race you down to the dark
Double cross dress my heart
And hope to make you cry
Love the believer, hate the belief! ✌🏻
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