Lessons learned from having over 80 lovers!

Take it from the mouth of this polyamorous slut

Don't wait for your wedding night

Just because patriarchal purity

Demands you do

But be careful who you invite into your bed

For the first time

My lips and limbs met his

In a messy, loving caress

He twisted me up in sheets

Bloodstained and beautiful

But after a year

My heart was the casualty

I'm still grateful he introduced me

To the underworld of kink

I explored my gender through roleplay

Before I drew up the bravery

And braced myself

To fling open the bedroom doors

And live the lifestyle 24/7

The first time I donned a strap-on

I stared down at my hips with wonder

Throbbing with the urgency of awakening

Don't be afraid to bite (with consent)

And when you don't consent

You can end an encounter at any time

Even if they get upset

Removing or tearing a condom

Without confirmation is called stealthing

And yes, it's sexual assault

Rape doesn't always look like brute force

I've been groped by numerous men

Sexually assaulted by 4 people

Multiple times by 2

But only 1 of them pinned me to the bed

I fought

Then I let her

She took me to bed

And laid me to rest in 20 minutes

But I resurrected myself

And although the recovery has been rough

I just choose my lovers more carefully

No trauma's ever going to kill

My lust for life

Don't be afraid to explore intimacy

With other genders

And people outside of your "type"

Try group sex at least once

Trust me...it's so fucking fun

My first experience with a woman

Was during my first foursome

And when I was eating pussy

For the first time

I looked up at her pretty face

Contorted in pleasure

And chose a life of liberating hedony

One time a guy stood up

Lifted me in his arms

And kept fucking me

While I straddled his waist!

Still one of the hottest positions I’ve tried

Then he and two of his friends

Tied me to the bed

Fed a gag ball into my mouth

Slipped a blindfold over my eyes

And gang banged me

All while filming for my OnlyFans!

I’ve been part of multiple big orgies

And witnessed and done some wild acts

Most have been amazing

But they can be awkward with strangers

I’ll never forget 7 people rotating through

Eating me out at a T4T party!

Make sure you put out

A full spread of snacks at sexy parties

Partake before you spread your legs

And make a meal of each other

Dick size and shape really don't matter

The real question is...

Does he know how to use it?

Does he rely on his tongue and thumb

As much as he does the power

Of his precious penis?

Skinny boys really do be packing though!

Don't settle for average assholes

Who don't deserve access

To your banging bod

And erotic power

But treat you like a Kum and Go

Many of the men I've fucked for "pleasure"

Were selfish lovers with a weak stroke

And finished in minutes

Before they even got me started

I'm a pro hoe

Roughly 62% of the people

I’ve slept with were clients

Overall they’ve been far more respectful

Than guys who hit it for free

They’ve thrilled and spoiled me

Paid my bills and for my porn

I let them all have their fun

And when we’re done

They fall back and talk

Thank me for fulfilling their fantasies

And fearlessly exploring their fetishes

Whisper their darkest secrets

They wouldn’t tell Jesus

I move like poetry and give them therapy

My body speaking their languages fluently

One guy who’s followed me for 5 years

And commissions custom content from me

Just flew me to Vegas

To wine and dine me for the weekend

Making my dreams come true

As much as I did his

And now he's agreed

To send me biweekly donations

To pay my bills and help fund my top surgery!!!

My sexual experience

Looks a lot like Congress demographics:

Historically male

But in recent years

Women and trans folks

Are getting a lot more representation

Doing my part to fuck around fairly!

Call it DEI but for dating

Women seem to be better lovers by far

But when I connect with a passionate, skilled man

He rocks my fucking world

Leaving me a melted, twitchy mess

Still, only 5 people have ever

Taken me to the peak of pleasure

But just because they make you cum

Doesn't mean they're the One

They could just be a really fun fling

Sometimes the chemistry between you

Means you're better off as friends

I've been with women and men

As a woman and man

Wildly different experiences

I've only fucked one person

As both genders

And he was wild for me either way

I used to be the most confident

Feminine exhibitionist

But I was going through the motions pre-T

I knew where to lay and what to say

I could keep my eyes closed

And the men would feel the same

Saying yes to everyone

Before I quieted my mind enough

To dive into the depths of my desires

While I'm still performative with pleasure

I'm showing up in my authentic skin

Albeit still shy in the moment sometimes

Especially when one-on-one

But I finally see myself mirrored

In masculine bodies

And people rant and rave

Over my bountiful hair

Lean into feelings before they take flight

Sex can be a form of escape

But avoidance isn't healthy

Even if you keep it casual

It's okay to cry in the moment

And after

Even if it was good

Sometimes because it's so good

Always have safe sex

No glove, no love!

Be generous with prevention and Plan Bs

Take PrEP and Doxy PEP

Always, always get tested

After a new partner ASAP

Share your status transparently

And ask for theirs too please

Be a safe, ethical slut

Not always possible with one night stands

Chance encounters with strangers

That linger with you years later...

But still try

Don't be that guy that lies

Sex is one of the most intimate ways

To experience someone

I've found that above all

I love burying my face between legs

And giving wicked good head

But kissing and pillow talking

Can be even more intensely carnal

Everyone has such a different touch and taste

Treat every inch of the rich tapestry of skin

Like the sacred ground it is

Learn all the erogenous zones

How to tease people apart

And piece them back together

In a different pattern

You can reduce the most built up person

To a pile of brick and cinders

You can lower the creaking drawbridge

To a heavily guarded heart

You can empower an insecure, timid being

Into a bad ass bitch beating asses

Dominating their dead eyed job and dungeons

I know this because that person is also me

You know me as confident

Unapologetically authentic

Honest to a fault

And outrageously scandalous

I have to credit everyone

Who saw me stripped down to my soul

And embraced me enthusiastically

They made me believe that I don't need

Flashy fashion or a body that conforms

To be beautiful

So yeah, these are lessons learned

From having over 80 lovers

I don't say all this just to brag

Well, I mean, I love to brag!

I feel like I've earned it

Since I've got so many in the bag

And I know that's the most dude thing about me

But my point being...

I'm grateful for all I've gleaned

As a sacred whore and sex worker

You don't have to be a polyamorous slut

But I dare you

To have a lasting affair with Eros

You'll never lose your lust for life